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When
visiting a village it is customary to present a gift of yaqona,
which is also known as kava. The gift, called a sevusevu, is
not expensive-half-a-kilo (which is appropriate) costs approximately
$10.
It
is presented to the Turaga ni Koro, the executive head of the
village. The presentation is usually in his house and will generally
be attended by some of the older men who happen to be in the
vicinity at the time and can quickly turn into a social occasion.
Pounded into powder, the yaqona will be mixed with water and
served. Be prepared to shake hands and to answer many personal
questions such as where you are from, are you married, how many
children do you have, how much money you earn etc.
It
is important to dress modestly when away from the immediate
vicinity of your resort or hotel. Always carry a sulu (sarong,
lavalava, pareu) to cover bathing togs or shorts and halter
tops.
Do
not wear a hat in a village as it is considered an insult to
a chief. Do not wear shoes into people's houses. It is considered
an insult to touch someone's head.
Fijians
are known as the friendliest people in the world. Your respect
for their customs and traditions will not only make you a welcome
guest in their villages and homes, but add another dimension
to your Fijian holiday.
Important
Tips About Visiting Villages:
Dress
modestly. Don't wear shorts, and women must not wear halter
tops or bare shoulders.
Do
not wear hats. They are interpreted as a sign of disrespect.
Always
remove your shoes before entering any house or other building.
Stay
with your assigned host. If other villagers ask you to eat
or accompany them, politely note that you are with your host
and would be honored to visit with them at some other time.
Remember, Fijians will, out of custom, always ask you to
eat with them or share whatever they have.
Speak
softly. Raised voices are interpreted as expressing anger.
Show
respect, but be cautious with praise. If you show too much
liking for an object, then the Fijians will feel obliged to
give it to you as a gift, whether they can afford to or not.
If
you spend a night in the village, reward your host with a
useful gift of similar value for each member of your party.
It is not recommended that you stay in a village which is
in the habit of accommodating paying visitors. If you feel
obliged to pay more, then ask your host what he or she might
like and purchase it for them. A bundle of groceries is graciously
appreciated by large Fijian families.
You
will find some villages more traditional than others, especially
those distant from towns and urban centers. Remember, Fijians
are not judgmental of other people and will rarely express a
negative opinion. However, you will find that the more you respect
their customs, the warmer your village welcome will be.
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